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Home Again

How can I even begin to tell you about my trip? I guess I can start by saying that what Meg from The Pages of Our Crazy Life commented about (me) “coming back a changed woman” turned out to be entirely true. And I knew that the trip would change me, but I had no idea in what ways and to what extent. It was the kind of experience that makes you question and/or appreciate so many things about your life. Questioning my priorities. Learning new truths. Appreciating what we have - and what we don’t have. Realizing that friendship transcends culture and language, and that the emotions we experience as autism parents are universal and run so deep, even on the other side of the world.

I came home three days ago to a 108-degree heat wave, a cat-scratched leather couch, and an ant infestation. I have three-foot-high weeds in my yard (that somehow grew in the heat), a major work deadline (that was already extended because of the trip), and about two hundred unread/unanswered emails (that I can’t even begin to tackle). I’ve missed blogging like crazy. And let me just say that this 108-degree heat wave actually feels good compared to the 87% humidity and heat in Nepal. I’m serious.

I think the only way I can write about this nearly month-long trip is to break it up into segments - because that’s exactly how it happened. I started off by celebrating the Fourth of July with the SoCal contingent of my extended family. Then I went with my brother and sister to visit our childhood homes, picked up my sons and took them to the Grand Canyon, spent a day on the beach with my dad, went winetasting with some relatives, and then flew to Nepal for two weeks, where I experienced so many amazing things. And all of it begs to be written about.

So, my friends, if you’ll indulge me, I’ll feature a particular part or topic of my trip in several different posts over the next couple of weeks. I wouldn’t be able to do it justice otherwise. I’ll also need to spread the posts out a bit because my boss was right about something (as she often is).  I dragged myself into work Tuesday morning, after approximately 22 hours of plane time. My boss gave me a hug and told me it’ll take a week for me to get over the jetlag. I waved it off and said, “Oh, I’ll be fine in three days.” Well, today is the third day, and all I can say is - What the hell do I know?!

Carved wooden doors at the Kathmandu Airport. More pics and stories to come!

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19 Responses to “Home Again”

  1. M Says:

    Can’t wait to hear your stories. Nepal was very lucky to have you. It will be interesting to hear about your interactions regarding autism, what you said, what sort of reactions and questions you received. So, welcome back, hope you’re slowly de-jet-lagging. I wonder if people who walk very far ever get shoe-lagged.

  2. Casdok Says:

    Welcome back! Very much looking forward to hearing all ablout it.

  3. jess wilson Says:

    welcome back!!!!

    can’t wait to hear aboout the trip. it sounds AMAZING!

    xoxo

  4. mama edge Says:

    She’s back! She’s back! Yay!

  5. Holly Says:

    Glad you had the trip of a lifetime, looking forward to hearing and seeing more!! Welcome back!

  6. Carrie Says:

    Welcome home! I’ve missed you!

    Can’t wait for your stories/thoughts.

  7. Mary (MPJ) Says:

    I’m so glad you’re back. I’ve missed you! Looking forward to hearing about your trip!

  8. rhemashope Says:

    Missed you, girl! Can’t wait to read your reflections and hear about your adventures!

  9. Kate Says:

    I forgot you were going to Nepal. I wondered where you were but thought you must be out somewhere since it is summer. Glad to have you back, hope you had a good time. By the way, I went to Bend, and it didn’t work. So I went to a commune outside of Eugene, and that’s not working so well either. Any suggestions for living situations suitable for someone with MCS in the state of Oregon (or elsewhere, but I figure you would know Oregon best) would be greatly appreciated, however short term. Thanks! Anyway I hope you settle back in okay. Kate

  10. Sheri Says:

    I’m so glad you are home!

  11. Anonymom Says:

    Welcome home! I look forward to your stories.

  12. dynamite girl Says:

    Welcome hoem, I have been checking your blog to see if you had made it home yet. I can’t wait to hear about your trip.

  13. michelle oneil Says:

    Welcome back Tanya! Can’t wait to read the stories about your amazing journey when you come up for air.

  14. pixiemama Says:

    Welcome home! I can’t wait to read about your amazing experiences.

    love!

  15. Maddy Says:

    Hooray! You were missed. And your boss is right it will definitely take about 10 days depending upon whatever else is going on in your life.

    Can’t wait to hear the details of the trip. A whole month! How frightfully European on you. [you know that France is sort of closed for August!]
    Cheers

  16. nicki Says:

    What an awesome summer you’ve had! I’m sure it will take a whole bunch of posts to give your vacation the description it deserves! I can’t wait to read more!

  17. Paulene Angela Says:

    Great to read you’re back Tanya.

    I’m sure the whole experience was enlightening. Really looking forward to reading your posts.

  18. goodfountain Says:

    Welcome back, Tanya! Can’t wait to hear more about the trip. Have missed your posting and your Nigel/Aidan stories. :)

  19. Cheryl Says:

    So glad you’re back home safe and sound, and can’t wait to hear/read more about your adventures! Thanks again for the beautiful souvie you brought back for me - that was so sweet and thoughtful! Hugs!

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