Answers
After a scary trip to the emergency room, numerous tests and doctor appointments, and many prayers, we finally have an answer for what’s been going on with Aidan’s insides. Last week’s hour-long scan, the “it’s-probably-not-this-but-let’s-just-rule-it-out” actually turned out positive: a condition called Meckel’s diverticulosis. It occurs in about 2% of the population. Of that 2%, only 5% have symptoms requiring surgery. Of the 5% with symptoms, the vast majority show symptoms by age 2. It is extremely rare for symptoms to be apparent after age 10, which is why they didn’t think it was what Aidan had. In all cases, the diverticulum forms in utero, so Aidan’s has been affecting him for close to thirteen years.
So yes – that part about surgery. Aidan will need to have surgery to remove the diverticulum from his intestines. They also want to schedule a sigmoidoscopy before the surgery to check for polyps or any other problems since we have a family history of colon cancer. So my little guy will go through two invasive procedures in the space of two weeks. I am still trying to wrap my mind around all of this, and Aidan is scared. So scared that he actually told me that he’s scared. He was scared before we found out about the Meckel’s, wondering what was happening with him, and now he’s scared about the surgery. I tried to assuage his fear by mentioning several family members who’ve come through surgery just fine, but the fact is that I’m scared too. I don’t like this one bit. I just keep telling myself that at least it’s fixable. The “good” news is that once the diverticulum is removed and the intestines repaired properly, there are usually no long-term problems. There is some remote risk of post-op complications involving infection, but that’s not going to happen, I tell myself. He will be fine. He’ll be dragging logs at the beach again in no time.
Prayers, please.
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23 Responses to “Answers”
April 10th, 2009 at 3:49 am
polyana says, ‘you found out what it is! you can fix it! and you know he’ll be fine!’
fellow mama says, ‘i understand how scary it is to see your baby vulnerable.’
sending prayers and love
April 10th, 2009 at 5:00 am
you will get prayers, happy thoughts and much support from all of us. aidan will get the same, in even larger quantities. there really aren’t any completely comforting words, but now a lot of other people are going to be worrying and waiting and worrying some more along with you.
April 10th, 2009 at 6:12 am
Oh, it so hard to find just the right words, but there are lots of prayers for you and Aidan.
April 10th, 2009 at 7:23 am
You’ve got ‘em!
April 10th, 2009 at 7:30 am
Sending many prayers your way…Jacob had two minor procedures back to back when he was about two….they said they were minor, small risks involved and it was all true but this mom still cried like a baby when it was all said and done and I had him back in my arms again.
April 10th, 2009 at 7:41 am
I’m so gladyou found out what was wrong, so sorry fixing it involves surgery. We can have all the faith in the world in our doctors, but it’s still scary. We’ll be praying for you and your little guy.
April 10th, 2009 at 7:51 am
That double edged sword! I know what’s wrong and it can be fixed but damn it’s scary. UGH!!!
Lots of prayers, love and magic wishes heading your way.
Jenn
April 10th, 2009 at 10:03 am
I agree with some of the comments. Of course our prayers are with you all, but they know what it is and what to do about it. That is a blessing. Best wishes!
April 10th, 2009 at 10:39 am
I’m glad to hear you finally got some answers. As scary as surgery is, I think its scarier to know something is wrong but not know what it is.
Best wishes to your family!
April 10th, 2009 at 2:08 pm
Positive thoughts and prayers your way! But Aidan WILL do GREAT!! Kids are so resiliant!
April 10th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Hugs and prayers for all of you, and peace of mind knowing that all will be well soon. XO
April 10th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
I’m glad you found it, but Gosh I know it’s scary now having to do the surgery. I wish you much strength in the coming weeks!
April 10th, 2009 at 5:14 pm
oh my! prayers are streaming towards you and aidan RIGHT THIS SECOND!!!!!i can only imagine how very scary this is for all of you. AND he WILL be fine. i know it. we all will hold on to that for you. xxx
April 11th, 2009 at 8:10 am
Oh sweet boy! I wish he had a service dog. I see all kinds of pictures of kids whose dogs come in with them until they are put under anesthesia.
Thank God you found out what is causing the problem. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
April 11th, 2009 at 12:56 pm
Hi there, I’m new to your page but wanted to say something after reading your trying experience with your Aiden. My sil had the same surgery for the same thing as your son, and has done wonderfully. My prayers are with you
April 11th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
Prayers —-> sent.
Good luck with everything. It is scary. For all you. Keep us all posted.
April 12th, 2009 at 2:12 am
Glad you found oput the cause and i hope the surgery isnt too traumatic and works.
Prayers for you all.
April 12th, 2009 at 10:16 pm
Everyone – thank you so much for your prayers and concern. I appreciate all of you.
April 13th, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Oh! Tanya! I just read this. Oh my gosh. Thankful, thankful that there IS an answer, yet so sorry to hear that this is it.
love
April 13th, 2009 at 11:54 pm
Prayers and good wishes…
April 17th, 2009 at 6:00 am
Tanya, I’m late on this. I’m definitely praying for you and Aidan. When is the surgery?
April 28th, 2009 at 3:48 pm
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