Comments on: Just One Wish

By: M

Sun, 09 Nov 2008 02:58:33 +0000

Friendship ends up being an education in itself…just learning to gain a sense of others, learning the parameters of the “give and take” of conversation; when that connection exists, you end up with a safe way to develop, learn, make mistakes, grow…so definitely, friendship is more important and, to some extent, even includes the first option. Anyway; you’re so good at breaking all of this down. I want to borrow your thinking skills.

By: Hugh Kilpatrick

Hugh Kilpatrick — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 10:46:33 +0000

Hi Tanya,

My son is 14 and has traits that cause him to be diagnosed Aspergers.

I absolutely love him to pieces.

I get what you say about your choice. I feel it when you talk about his acceptance.

My son is starting to really feel it, when he is left out of things.

Iwould still pick “3. Excellent conversation skills throughout life” – because with that he could get a sense of belonging and acceptance.

Perhaps he could uncover at least one true friend – as you say “We should all be so fortunate.”

By: Fearless Females

Fearless Females — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 17:44:59 +0000

Oh gosh, I think the first thing that I said when Nick was diagnosed was “I dont want him to be alone!” while I was in tears. So it is so true, a good friend forever is really all that we ever need and should hope for. It equals happiness more than money.

There was an interesting article in the Boston Globe about how women (especially) are seeking out that one good friend, everyday, but are afraid to ask for it. Interesting!